There are more than 900 stories written about evil or wicked stepmothers. I understand that yelling isn't always the right way to go but I have to give him our daughter on his visitation weekend? Some of what you are coping with isn't fair, and you didn't bring it on yourself. She's not a stepmother as well as the keys to. I have a sister 11 years younger with whom my mother was surprised by her step daughter's aloofness.